He is survived by five daughters, Cynthia Lilly Cantwell of Paradise, Calif ., Pamela Lilly Krans of Dover, N . H ., Nina Lilly Castellucio and Lisa Lilly, both of Malibu, Calif ., and Barbara Clarke Lilly of Kihei, Hawaii; three sons, John C . Jr . of Zacatecas, Mexico, Charles R . of Haiku, Hawaii, and Philip Hansen Bailey of Makawao, Hawaii; several grandchildren; and a brother, David M . of St . Paul and Nantucket, Mass.