My belief at this point is that either both of us should be considered 3RR ( if each one of my reverts is counted for " 1 ", then we both 3RR'ed, him first ), or only him ( if my revert count gets some relativization ) but not just me, since he initiated the 3RR . ( Thank you for going through this, I realize it's rather lame and boring, but I believe that if we don't defend the basics such as official nationality, we're going nowhere .)
